Our Refuge Story

I came to the refuge, with my children, following several years in an abusive marriage. I had no idea what to expect when I arrived, but I was greeted by the most supportive team. I was able to access one-to-one support from my key worker and, through their staff, support for my children. The refuge was often full of laughs and caring individuals, both staff and residents, and it very quickly became my sanctuary and my home. 

Through the refuge, I started going to counselling sessions and I was able to rebuild my lost confidence and gain my life back. The staff introduced me to the Freedom Programme and I have been able to attend this as many times as I have felt necessary. The Freedom Programme became my strongest tool to build my awareness of domestic abuse.

The support I gained from the refuge did not end when we moved into our home. I kept regular contact with the outreach team who maintained the support for both me and my children. They pointed me in the right direction to get legal advice and supported me through court, even attending with me. I have always felt that they would be there for me, no matter what I was being faced with.